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Monday, August 1, 2011

Sexual Abuse

Sexual abuse is unwanted sexual activity, with perpetrators using force, making threats or taking advantage of victims not able to give consent. Most victims and perpetrators know each other. Immediate reactions to sexual abuse include shock, fear or disbelief. Long-term symptoms include anxiety, fear or post-traumatic stress disorder. While efforts to treat sex offenders remain unpromising, psychological interventions for survivors — especially group therapy — appears effective.
Adapted from the Encyclopedia of Psychology 

What You Can Do

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  • Tips for recovering from disasters and other traumatic eventsUnderstanding the emotions and normal responses that follow a disaster or other traumatic event can help you cope with your feelings, thoughts and behaviors – and can help you on the path to recovery.
  • Understanding Child Sexual AbuseChildren and adolescents who have been sexually abused can suffer a range of psychological and behavioral problems, from mild to severe, in both the short and long term. Counseling and support services are important for both the children affected and the caregivers responsible for the abused children.
  • Child sexual abuse: What parents should knowInformation for parents and caretakers on the warning signs and treatment options for child sexual abuse.

Getting Help

Books

  • Illegitimate children – children whose parents were not married when they were born
  • Monogamy – this means that a person can only be married to one person at a time
  • Bigamy – is against the law. This is when a person is married to more than one person at the same time
  • Divorce – is the legal end to a marriage
  • Separation – when a couple live apart but are still legally married
  • Empty shell marriages – when a couple are still married and live in the same house but lead separate lives
  • Serial monogamy – when a person has a series of marriages, divorces and remarriages, e.g. Henry VIII and Jennifer Lopez.
  • Polygamy – is when a person is married to more than one person at the same time. This is accepted in some countries but is against the law in Britain. There are two types of polygamy:
    • Polyandry – woman and husbands e.g. Tibet
    • Polygyny – man with wives e.g. Masai in Africa
Trends in marriage and divorce
  • Increase in divorce rate (number of divorces per 1000 people per year)
  • Decrease in first marriages (where the people had not been married before)
  • Increase in re-marriage (where people were married before) This suggests perhaps that it is not necessarily marriage that is declining in popularity - just that some people choose the wrong person to marry.
  • Increase in cohabitation
  • Increase in illegitimate children
Reasons for the increase in the divorce rate 1. Changes in the law - several laws have been passed to make divorce easier to obtain.
2. Ease of divorce - the stigma of divorce is greatly reduced in society today, so people no longer feel ashamed to be divorced. Sociologists point to a decline in the influence of religion as another factor.
3. Change in attitudes - some sociologists argue that marriage is highly valued in society, partly due to the image the media present of marriage as based on romance and happiness. People now demand more from marriage and if it does not live up to the ideal they hold then they will get divorced and try again - this explains the growing number of remarriages.
4. The changing role of women - approx. 70% of divorces are initiated by women. Women today are more likely to be independent - with a good education, fewer children and a job. If they are unhappy in a marriage it is easier for them to leave and start again.
Marriage and Divorce
1. Drag Quiz - Use the quiz to who is most likely to divorce.
 
Consequences of divorce
  • More single parent families
  • More one person households
  • More remarriages
  • May be more poverty if the person who has the children gets no financial support from their ex partner.
  • Children may lack a male role model (as most often the female gets custody of the children) and therefore not be socialised properly which according to the New Right may lead them to do badly in education.
  • Feminists might say that divorce is a positive thing for women and children as only men benefit from family life. They believe that female single parent families are better than nuclear families for women.
Is the family in decline?
It would appear from the evidence that the media image of the ‘cereal packet family’ as the typical family seems in doubt. It seems that ‘the family’ generally is not in decline, it is simply that there is now more diversity of family types in Britain today (i.e. many different types).
Marriage & Divorce Crossword
1. Crossword - Use the crossword to check your understanding.
 
New Right and Feminist views of divorce
Theory Feminism
Divorce is a positive thing for women and children as only men benefit from family life. They believe that female single parent families are better than nuclear families for women.
New Right
Children may lack a male role model (as most often the female gets custody of the children) and therefore not be socialised properly which may lead them to do badly in education.


Religious Studies
Christianity: marriage and divorce
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Christians see marriage as vows taken before God, and divorce is not encouraged.

 

Marriage

In the marriage service of the Church of England, the couple getting married make vows to each other. The traditional marriage vows are:
I, take you,to be my wife [or husband].to have and to holdfrom this day forward;for better, for worse,for richer, for poorer,in sickness and in health,to love and to cherish,till death us do part,according to God’s holy law;and this is my solemn vow.
Marriage is important for Christians because:
  • it's a gift from God; it's part of God’s plan for creation that men and women should live together
  • it provides a relationship through which husband and wife support each other; this relationship is built on love and faithfulness
  • it provides a secure environment for the bringing up of children
The importance of marriage is emphasised by Jesus
But from the beginning of creation, God made them male and female. For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.

Divorce, remarriage and cohabitation

The teaching of Jesus in the New Testament is against divorce (the legal ending of a marriage before the death of a spouse).
It was also said, ‘Whoever divorces his wife, let him give her a certificate of divorce.’ But I say to you that anyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of unchastity, causes her to commit adultery; and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery.
Matthew 5:31-32
Adultery (sex with someone who you are not married to) is also wrong according to the teachings of the Ten Commandments:
You shall not commit adultery.
Exodus 20:14
Many churches now allow divorce but a marriage can only be ended by an annulment in the Roman Catholic Church. This means that the marriage is regarded as never having taken place for special reasons.
Christian couple on their wedding day
Christian couple on their wedding day
In 1981 the Church of England allowed people to marry again after a divorce. Many other churches now hold this position.
The Roman Catholic Church is totally opposed to people cohabiting (living together without being married). Sexual intercourse outside of a marriage is a serious sin and couples who sin in this way cannot receive communion in church. Some Protestant churches accept cohabitation although they hope that the couple will choose eventually to be married in church.

Statistics

Total number of divorces in the UK:

YearNumber of divorcesYearNumber of divorces
196127,0001993180,000
196955,5562004167,138
1972124,9912005155,052

Total number of marriages in the UK:

YearNumber of marriagesYearNumber of marriages
1961350,0002005284,000
1991340,0002006275,140

Total number of civil marriage ceremonies in the UK:

YearNumber of marriagesPercentage of marriages
1990-47% of all marriages
2004 184,91068% of all marriages
2005 160,27065% of all marriages

Question
What reasons can you suggest for the drop in numbers in each of the tables above?

Question
What connections between the figures in each of the tables can you identify?



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